Perfect Imperfections

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• Anonymous asked: I need advice. My boyfriend asked for a break because he says I'm disrespectful, rude, and I push him away too much. He never expressed his feelings towards me because he says that I'd probably get mad or sad. The thing is, I've been depressed this past week and I've probably taken it out on the relationship. I know it's a stupid thing to have done. But this break is killing me. He decides to call the break when we're thousands of miles away. He's cut communication and it's eating me alive.

  This is from my perspective.
  
  I always take my anger out on my boyfriend and he knows damn well of that. Honestly, I feel like I’m an annoying ass girlfriend, lol. The good part of that is I’M AWARE of it. Even if i yell at him 24/7, even if i blame him when he’s not at fault, EVEN IF i seem apathetic about his feelings, on top of everything he knows i love him and of course he feels the same. Love can overcome all those obstacles. He tolerates it because he loves me, as weird as it sounds. Through all that bullshit,we both know at the end of the day it’s still “us”. Ken and I. It’s wrong of him to not wanting to express his feelings towards you because that makes me feel like he believes that you can’t handle the truth. Let him know that you’re AWARE of what you did was stupid when he comes back. Let him know to never hide his feelings like that ever again. Above all, let him know that even if you take shit out on him, love overpowers it all. But remember girl, there’s always a limit. If he doesn’t understand, he never truly loved you…and you can and will do better.

  Good luck. Hopefully i helped at least a bit. 
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